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You Need To Tell Her What You Want
And be very clear with your intentions.
Today was the first time in my dating history that a woman asked me, “Why did you ask to see me for another date?”
Say what, now?
I didn’t know what to feel about it, but I answered the only possible answer: The Truth.
We Met Through Some Facebook Friends
A week ago, someone on Facebook suggested a potential partner for a date and gave me a number. I called the girl, and we had a sweet talk.
We have some common interests. The girl likes fantasy as I do, she’s into geeky things, she’s exciting and, well, she’s gorgeous.
We met in Jerusalem, her hometown.
I don’t know a lot of places in Jerusalem. I lived in Tel Aviv and had commuted about an hour with a bus to get to Jerusalem from home. So I let her choose where we’ll meet. She wanted a bar.
It wouldn’t have been my first choice, but I supported the idea. It’s the first time I had alcohol with a potential partner on our first date — a refreshing change.
Overall, it seems as though the evening went well. The day after I called her and asked how she felt. She was positive about our meeting, and so I felt comfortable…
