You Need To Tell Her What You Want

And be very clear with your intentions.

Today was the first time in my dating history that a woman asked me, “Why did you ask to see me for another date?”

We Met Through Some Facebook Friends

A week ago, someone on Facebook suggested a potential partner for a date and gave me a number. I called the girl, and we had a sweet talk.

She Was Confused

Today we talked again, and she asked me why I had asked to see her a second time. She explained that in her perspective, this didn’t feel like a date but instead going out with a friend to drink beer.

Lesson Learned For Next Time

This experience taught me that I should be crystal clear about my motivations. It can look pretty clear to me, but evidently, she didn’t realize I was there for romantic pursuit.

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